December 11, 2019

Book review: The Art of Making Memories by Meik Wiking

The author Meik Wiking is probably mostly associated with the concepts hygge and lykke, as he wrote two books exploring those Danish lifestyle ideas (you’ll find my book reviews here and here). So when I saw his new publication, I knew I wanted to read it to learn more about how to live a happier life, especially since the author is the founder of the world’s first Happiness Research Institute, based in Copenhagen, Denmark.

If you have read any of Meik Wiking’s books, you will know that he has a fantastic sense of humour, great distance to his life and himself and, in my humble opinion, he writes his books in the hygge spirit; you’ll find them heart-warming, kind and funny.

So Christmas is coming and we may want to create it as a memorable moment. Even though I find Christmas very special, I don’t remember each and every one of the Christmasses I have experienced in my life. I remember when I got an enormous amount of books one Christmas when I was a child, when we went to the mountains or to Scotland, when we celebrated it in one tiny room which I and my husband were renting then (we had the floor heated, so no cold feet!), the last Christmas together with my father-in-law before he passed away and of course, the first Christmasses of our daughters. OK, that’s enough, or I’ll soon start crying and will never finish this book review!

So, what is the recipe for making happy memories? Meik Wiking has some practical ideas that can help you turn your ordinary everydayness into memorable special moments, for example having a new experience (do you speak foreign languages? Learn a new language!), using all your senses (how does childhood’s innocence smell?), paying full attention (remember: what you pay attention to, grows), connecting with your loved ones (invite your friends over and prepare for them the most scrumptious dessert & some Japanese tea/Colombian coffee and don’t forget to invite me!), sharing your embarrassing story (oh yes, that can be a good one especially at family gatherings), challenging yourself (I always think about it when I practise some sports, go an extra mile and you’ll feel so much better), telling a story (remember and retell those wonderful/funny/scary stories of your life), create and treasure memorable objects (I remember when my friend in high school, started writing a diary for her future children, to be given when they’re 18, special huh?)). And if you want to plan a memorable year, there are some tips/ideas on this subject, too.

As we keep reading Meik Wiking’s book, we discover how fascinating our memory is and as we know memory is an integral part of language learning. We want to memorise the vocabulary, grammar structures, cultural rules, etc. So is there a secret ingredient that can help us remember better? It’s association! “As a consequence, forgetting may be caused by a simple lack of appropriate cues that spark the memory.” (p. 106) The next time you have a list of vocab to learn, try to associate the words with some images, objects or specific circumstances, I bet you’ll remember them better! Also, you can read our blog posts on vocab learning (here and here).

My favourite story is on pages 279-281, once you’ve read it, do let me know if you find it special, too. And enjoy reading the book!

Kinga Macalla

December 4, 2019

Interview with Cate Hamilton, co-founder of Babel Babies

Cate Hamilton is a linguist, teacher, mum, entrepreneur and co-founder of the popular Babel Babies. Hello Cate, thank you for being our interview guest today. You’re a great advocate for learning languages. What’s your educational background? When was your passion for languages born?

I learned French and German at school, and went to Oxford University to study English and French. I remember being on a ferry to France with my parents as a young child and thinking that my brother and I had discovered a secret language when we heard French for the first time. I must have been about six! I have always loved words and collected dictionaries. My parents actively encouraged reading and exploring new languages, and their attitude was just to have a go. I enjoyed my school exchanges in France and Germany and really just like talking to people. It’s great to be able to make new friends and see the world from different perspectives. My pen-friends from 22 years ago are still good friends and it’s amazing to see our children playing together across their different languages.

Have you always professionally worked with languages? What are your current language-related projects?

I trained as a secondary French and English teacher, working in inner city Glasgow schools. I then moved to Cheltenham when we started our family and I co-founded Babel Babies with my friend Ruth Kemp. Since 2011 I’ve been working with local families and early years settings, encouraging them to sing languages together. We now have classes running in Bristol too, and have helped thousands of families discover languages from all around the world. We sing songs in French, German, Spanish, Italian, Portuguese, Arabic, Russian, Norwegian, Japanese, Korean, Welsh and English. It’s multilingual music, and I love introducing people to linguistics through music. It’s Languages with a Capital L. I’ve now got a podcast, The Language Revolution, where I talk about talking with guests ranging from neuroscientist Dr Thomas Bak to linguist Professor David Crystal. Language is the thread through all of human experience, and I’d love to help weave it back into the fabric of the school curriculum, especially in primary and early years. I also help coordinate the International Day of Multilingualism on 27th March, the date on the Rosetta Stone. If you’d like to get involved, check out the #multilingualisnormal hashtag on Twitter and join the conversation.

How did you discover your entrepreneurial talent? Have you always known you had it? How did you come up with the idea to start a business? What inspired/motivated you?

I’ve always admired entrepreneurs and free thinkers. I guess I’m a revolutionary at heart! I’ve worked on lots of start-ups from my teenage years onwards, from magazines to companies (I now run three of them). I had a stint organising networking events for entrepreneurs before I started teacher training. I remember thinking ‘I could do that’ and just needed an idea. The idea came when I had my first baby and realised that language is a process that starts even before birth. I’ve married up my love of the research and education side of linguistics with my entrepreneurial spirit to create novel solutions to the UK languages crisis. I’m on a mission to change UK attitudes to foreign languages, and all my projects are working towards that in some way.

You inspire families to introduce foreign languages to their children at a very young age. Why is it beneficial to be exposed to languages as babies/toddlers?

Someone once told me I was silly for doing languages before babies could speak, but the speaking part is really just the icing on the cake: the two years before that (including the last few months of pregnancy) are when babies are absorbing language rapidly and getting ready to say their first words. They have it all in their heads and have absorbed the grammar (just listen to a baby’s intonation – they know how to form sentences!) before they utter those magic first words.

Babies are natural linguists because they need to communicate with their caregivers and communities. It’s a survival mechanism really, and part of how we have evolved as a species. Far from birth being ‘too early’ to introduce languages, the UK actually starts language education far too late. Babies can recognise their mother tongue at birth, notice when a new language is introduced even when they are just hours old, and they can hear any sound in any language for most of their first year. They are processing new things at light speed, with billions of new synaptic connections per second. Whether they hear one, two, three or even more languages around them, babies are not confused. They simply process what they are exposed to, learn who will respond to which language, and soon enough they will work out how to get what they want from the people around them by communicating in the language that is most effective for their purpose. So if that means they need Italian to speak to papà, Japanese for mummy, and English at school to do so, they will learn them all. Multilingual is normal for most children around the world. It’s more unusual to speak only one language, and English monolingualism is the exception rather than the rule. Attitudes to languages are cemented in the early years – I think it’s vital to give children a positive first foray into foreign languages, whatever their backgrounds.

I know you’re a mum to three children, how do you balance your professional and family life?

Babel Babies is my second of four babies! My children have grown up with it, and they are the inspiration for it. It’s far more flexible to be my own boss than to work full time in school environment. I can pick up the children every day and go to all their school activities, and if that means I need to do some work in the evenings then I do. Being an entrepreneur means I’m passionate to the point of obsessive about my work – it’s not work really, since I love it and think about it all the time. The children are my testers of new songs and books, and new ideas. I discovered bullet journalling in 2017 and am so passionate about it that I run occasional workshops on how to get started. It’s a life-changing organisational technique and a bit like having a PA. Have a look at my Instagram @cateh_inc if you’d like to know more about it.

Do you raise your children multilingually? Do you encourage them to learn foreign languages?

The children are my inspiration for the whole idea of Babel Babies, and when my first son was born I immediately knew that I wanted to encourage him to love languages, and maybe skip the hard work of trying to learn to roll his Rs in French. However, as a new mum, I had lots to figure out and speaking French all the time felt strangely not like me. We settled on singing and reading lots of books in French, but also in Italian and Portuguese, and any other languages that take our fancy. I then had two more children, and over time we have turned them into keen linguists. My eldest son is fascinated with languages and how they are similar/different to each other, and loves code-breaking new alphabets like Arabic and Russian; my middle child is amazing at accents and loves connecting with people – she’s amazing; and my youngest has probably had the most exposure to French as I was far more confident speaking to him in French with five years of Babel Babies already under my belt when he was born. Now he’s four and says, ‘No Mummy, don’t say it in French, say it in Normal!’ so we have a period of resistance, but he still knows how to respond when I say something in French. They all love exploring new languages. I’m excited to see where they go with it as they grow! I used to think that not having raised bilingual kids was a failure, but actually I’m super proud of their positive attitudes towards languages and they are genuinely interested. They make up new languages in their games all the time.

How many foreign languages do you know? How do you maintain your language skills?

I know French, bien sûr, and then probably Italian is my next most fluent. I tend to translate from French into Italian rather than English to Italian when I’m speaking, so I sometimes wade into the middle of a sentence before I’ve really got a clue what the verb is going to be! It’s often quite amusing to see what my brain does. I did two years of night school in Portuguese with my husband and we travelled around Portugal for a month, so my Portuguese is okay. I also have German to a reasonable level, and my best friend’s mother is German so I’ve heard quite a lot of it. I read stories and sing songs in at least ten languages, and I just have languages on the brain all the time. I always study languages together, rather than monolingually, so I’m currently learning Spanish, Portuguese and Italian all at once. I sometimes use Duolingo, but mostly it’s reading aloud, and always singing. I get myself an ohrwurm and stick with it until I have mastered the words.

We’re a language school, do you remember your favourite language teacher? What was so special about their teaching?

Mr Harrison was my German teacher at secondary and he was legendary. He was so passionate and enthusiastic, and hilarious sometimes (oh those modal verbs lessons!) He made languages come to life. I am eternally grateful for his encouragement and would love to see what he thinks of Babel Babies and The Language Revolution. Danke schön, Herr Harrison!

Thank you, Cate, it was great to have you as our interview guest. We want to wish you success in all your professional and language adventures.

Photos courtesy of Cate Hamilton

November 27, 2019

Book review: Growing Up with Two Languages. A Practical Guide for the Bilingual Family by Una Cunningham

What a fantastic compendium of practical knowledge for bilingual families! I found the publication interesting to read, as it implements stories from the author’s own experience and quotations from bilingual families, and these make the whole reading experience much more alive and real.

As we read on the back cover, the author Una Cunningham is an Associate Professor in Modern Languages at Stockholm University in Sweden, and she raised her 4 children to speak English and Swedish.

Growing Up with Two Languages is mostly a practical read, but it also has a short chapter devoted to research and further reading. We read there that most of the world’s population speak more than one language, this may well mean that we should question monolingualism in our society and see it as a (curable!) problem. (vide Li Wei, p. 165)

The book refers to many topics that new or well-established bilingual parents may find interesting to learn about, such as balancing two languages, dealing with public/family reactions to bilingual upbringing, the one parent-one language method, cultural competence, active and passive languages, practical advice from the author and from other bilingual parents (e.g. feed your child with bilingual and bicultural knowledge but do not force-feed), motivation, etc.

Another piece of advice which I found really useful to follow when reading this book is that Una Cunningham emphasises that as a reader and a bilingual parent, we know best what works in our current family setting, so we should only take the advice that will work for our children’s bilingual upbringing. “According to their circumstances, a family will develop a system regulating the use of two languages with which they live.” (p. 31) Interestingly, the language chosen by siblings to talk between themselves is usually the majority language (if it’s their dominant language). And the key ingredients to have a successful bilingual family are determination, consistency and perseverance.

Finally, of all the interviewees mentioned in the book, none of them regrets being exposed to more than one language in their childhood. Quite the opposite, those who weren’t raised bilingually (but for example only biculturally), regret that their parent/s didn’t speak to them in their native language.

What’s your recent reading on bilingualism? Please let me know in the comments below.

Kinga Macalla

November 20, 2019

Travelling corner: Camping with baby

Is it easy? Is it worth doing? Is it manageable? Yes, you ask yourself all those questions before barking upon a family holiday under a tent. It wasn’t easy for me to decide when to go camping for the very first time, so today I’d like to share with you some advice/tips if you plan your first camping trip with the little one.

When: You’ll know when you’re ready and you’ll feel the same about your baby. Just wait and see. I think our baby was around 9 months when we went away camping.

Packing: Start packing early, to make sure you have all the necessary items with you which you can then easily find in the tent.

Time: I would suggest going for a shorter period, e.g. a weekend. We went for 4 days and it was absolutely enough.

Destination: We chose an off-track campsite within a 2-hour drive, but I think I would have preferred to have chosen a more commercial campsite. We didn’t complain, but I think we’d have had a better camping experience if the campsite was more baby-friendly.

Sleep: As I was still breast-feeding at night, I didn’t sleep so comfortably, because I was woken up every couple of hours. I knew the quality of my sleep would be compromised; out of 3 nights, I had one really good night’s sleep (not too bad, huh?).

Activities: Plan as little as possible, as you don’t know how much energy you’ll have left, after cooking, taking care of the children, cleaning up, etc.

Would I repeat it? Oh yes!!! Organisation-wise was a bit challenging, but overall, we had a great time together. And I love sleeping outside, so even with no uninterrupted sleep, I wouldn’t change it for anything!

Kinga Macalla

November 13, 2019

Book review: Calm Christmas and a Happy New Year: A little book of festive joy by Beth Kempton

“A calm Christmas does not have to be a small Christmas or even a quiet Christmas.” [p. 121]

It’s a beautiful read which attempts to prepare readers for Christmas; calm Christmas. I read it in October which may seem to be too early, but actually no, it’s the perfect time to start thinking about the Christmas one wishes to have this year. The book mindfully guides us through the pre-, during- and post-Christmas times and through questions, stories and quotations coming from the author’s own experiences or those of her friends’ or the community’s. The reader may reflect/question/re-invent their own way of celebrating the festive season. The book is simply published, yet the magic is felt on every page.

And if you’re wondering whether there are any language-related digressions, I can only point out that the author has a Masters degree in Japanese.

What inspirational read on Christmas would you recommend? Let me know down in the comments.

Kinga Macalla

November 6, 2019

Learning a language: Learn Dutch with BLS online & FREE!

As you remember, we introduced a new series of blog posts (see Spanish, French, German, Russian, Italian, Portuguese, Mandarin Chinese, Arabic & Polish) where we teach you some useful phrases in different languages. Sounds amazing? And it’s DUTCH today!

Do you travel frequently to Brussels or Amsterdam? Are you planning to learn more about the Flemish painters? Do you dream of going for a weekend-away in the Netherlands? If so, we would like you to taste & learn some essential Dutch first. Below you’ll find a list of useful phrases in Dutch (greetings, polite phrases, closed question words, numerals and simple questions & sentences). We also video recorded Victoria, our Dutch tutor, to help you with reading, pronunciation and accent (also available on YouTube). We hope you enjoy this series and that you’ll come and learn Dutch with us! Good luck!

Which language would like you like to learn next? Let us know in the comments below.

Kinga Macalla

October 30, 2019

Book review: Notes from a Small Island by Bill Bryson

“There used to be a kind of unspoken nobility about living in Britain.” [253]

When I started reading the book, I knew I would laugh unstoppably, enjoy the off-track travel stories & sentimental retrospective mentions. But in this publication, I feel I discovered more; a land that the author calls home. His sentiment for the past times and warmth for the hidden paths & forgotten towns makes you want to immediately visit the exact same locations. And the fact that he travelled by public transport makes me want to hug him (yes, I’m a huge advocate for using public transport, bikes or your own legs)!

I found it extremely interesting that the book, which was written in the nighties, is so up-to-date today. The issues regarding conservation, heritage, nature, community, and public transport still need our voice and understanding.

I hope you enjoyed my short introduction to this fascinating read by Bill Bryson. What in Notes from a Small Island stroke your attention most? Do let me know in the comments below.

Kinga Macalla

October 23, 2019

Travelling corner: Bristol by bike (part 2)

In my humble opinion, Bristol is not the easiest place to cycle, as it’s quite hilly, but the bike trips I want to recommend today are not too challenging, they’re definitely family-friendly 🙂 I usually cycle with my family at weekends and we use a bike trailer for our two daughters who enjoy observing the world from there (or have a short nap, why not?!). My previous blog post on bike trips can be read here and today is part 2. OK, off we go! 3 bike trips are coming:

Shirehampton-Severn Beach (route no 41)

It’s a fairly easy ride, not too long. However, I highly recommended going on this bike trip on Sunday, as otherwise many lorries cross the route. It is always (at least in my case) windy in Severn Beach, so be prepared to have a break with your hair everywhere. Having said this, I do enjoy this cycling route, especially two moments; when you’re going among the trees and then the bridge view.

Shirehampton-Pill-Bristol Centre (route no 26)

I so wanted to go cycling on the other side of the river Avon (as I had looked at it many times from the train window) and this summer I finally fulfilled this desire! The cycling route is beautiful and it’s not very difficult, but I think it takes a bit longer to reach the centre than on the previous route. You will meet many cyclists, runners and walkers on the way, as it’s a popular way to enjoy one’s weekend, with the views of Clifton Suspension Bridge or the River Avon.

Shirehampton-Bristol Centre-Bedminster/Southville (Portway Road)

The cycling route goes along Portway Road which runs from Shirehapton to Bristol centre. There is a pavement, so the ride is comfortable, however, it’s sinusoidally up and down, so it takes some stamina to get to the centre. If you wish to go to Bedminster/Southville, then turn right on the small bridge, which I think it’s called Plimsoll Bridge. I usually go this way if I quickly need to reach the above destinations.

These are my favourite, most-used bike trips. Do let me know which cycling routes are your favourites. Leave your comment down below.

Kinga Macalla

October 16, 2019

Learning a language: Learn Polish with BLS online & FREE!

As you remember, we introduced a new series of blog posts (see Spanish, French, German, Russian, Italian, Portuguese, Mandarin ChineseArabic) where we teach you some useful phrases in different languages. Sounds amazing? And it’s POLISH today!

Do you want to be able to talk with your Polish family? Do you travel frequently to Warszawa, Kraków or Wrocław? Are you planning your summer holiday in Hel or Zakopane? Do you dream of exploring the Polish countryside? If so, we would like you to taste & learn some essential Polish first. Below you’ll find a list of useful phrases in Polish (greetings, polite phrases, closed question words, numerals and simple questions & sentences). We also video recorded Lucja, our Polish tutor, to help you with reading, pronunciation and accent (also available on YouTube). We hope you enjoy this series and that you’ll come and learn Polish with us! Good luck!

Which language would like you like to learn next? Let us know in the comments below.

Written by Kinga Macalla

October 2, 2019

Series review: Better Than Us (Russian: Лучше, чем люди), Netflix

Better Than Us is set in Russia, in the near-future, where humanoid robots are being used to serve humans as cleaners and manual workers. A Chinese company creates a “bot” called Arisa (played by Paulina Andreeva), a bot which can understand human emotion – but also doesn’t follow the Three Laws of Robotics. In short, she can kill.

 

Russian robotics manufacturer Viktor Toropov buys the prototype Arisa, and intends to use it to cement his company’s place at the top of the robotics industry. There’s only one problem – Arisa escapes and bonds with a young girl, Sonya. Then follows a roller-coaster of a ride as Toropov tries to reclaim the fugitive bot, by any means necessary. Throw into the mix a group of anti-A.I. extremists, Arisa’s evolution as she starts to experience emotions of her own, and Sonya’s family’s private drama, and you have a series which stands head-and-shoulders above your standard sci-fi fare.
I personally give it a 9/10!

Darren Cameron